Victoria has been home over a week now and she has melded into our family. It's like she has always been here and we can't imagine life without her.
She adores her "anas" - "brothers" in Telugu. She cries when they leave for school and is so excited when we pick them up. She enjoys pulling Logan's covers off in the morning to wake him up saying loudly, "Ana ana ana ana".
Victoria is all girl and follows me around most of the day imitating what I do. She says, "Mama" and pats the kitchen counter to be picked up and put on it. She hangs her doll's clothes on the drying rack and "organizes" my kitchen drawers.
She chatters in Telugu all day long. We think she understands over half of what we say in English to her. She often obeys commands.
Victoria loves shoes ("slippers") and enjoys running errands in town. She becomes quite shy when others give her attention. She has a couple favorite books. One has a picture of ice cream and she loves to look at that picture. She says "ice cee" for ice cream and "gee" for green. She is starting to point to different objects when I say them and she compares the broccoli in the picture to the trees outside.
She eats anything we give her and ice cream has become a favorite food. She often asks to have "biscuits" (cookies, crackers) throughout the day. We think she would eat all day if we let her.
She sleeps well at night, but wakes up too early (jet lag). This morning she slept past her usual 5:00am until 7:00am which was wonderful!
Her foster family said that she enjoys dancing, but we had not seen this side of her. I had tried to get her to dance with no success. However, last night we played some Telugu nursery rhyme songs from Youtube and the girl broke loose in dance. It was very Indian, very unique, very funny and VERY CUTE!
What a joy she is to get to know and discover. It is fun to learn her quirks and what makes her happy. We continue to marvel at the gift she is to us!
Friday, November 20, 2009
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Home Sweet Home!
Landing in Chicago was splendid!!! Getting off the plane was even better! Everything seemed so clean and the air so fresh! We went through customs and immigration. We gave our sealed Visa packet to the immigration officer who was so friendly and congratulated us. Oh, to be home!!!! We waited at our gate for about an hour. I washed up in the bathroom which felt amazing and drank from the drinking fountain!!!! Oh, to have unlimited drinking water! Even the Chicago city water tasted good just because it was out of a fountain!
We visited with a young gal from Indianapolis who had just spent 3 months working at an orphanage in Calcutta. She had lots of good insights for us about the children there and how they are cared for in institutions. Helped us to understand Victoria more.
The plane ride from Chicago to Indy was short and sweet. Victoria watched out the window most of the way. She could sense our excitement because she was very excited herself. When we got off the plane she just wanted to run and yell. And then we saw them!!!!! Our boys!!!! Waiting right past the security sign. Victoria instantly knew who they were and the 3 of them ran and played and laughed together. It was so beautiful! Having been around our little peanut, the boys looked like monsters! They had on their "I'm the big brother" shirts from their Aunt Julie. They just had a blast running around the airport together.
Kid's choice was McDonalds. Again, way too much fun! Will and Logan helped Victoria play in the Playplace. They taught her all she needed to know - except for how to eat. Once it was time to eat, she wanted nothing to do with her nuggets and fries (she gobbled them up in India) and just wanted to play. She lost the battle as Billy finally took her out to the van for some quiet time.
The boys chatted with and "held" Victoria the whole way home. The three of them sat in the back of the van together with her in the middle. So precious. And we finally got home sweet home! It was surreal carrying her into her home - right were she belongs.
What a wonderful reunion - our whole family finally together! All is well.
We visited with a young gal from Indianapolis who had just spent 3 months working at an orphanage in Calcutta. She had lots of good insights for us about the children there and how they are cared for in institutions. Helped us to understand Victoria more.
The plane ride from Chicago to Indy was short and sweet. Victoria watched out the window most of the way. She could sense our excitement because she was very excited herself. When we got off the plane she just wanted to run and yell. And then we saw them!!!!! Our boys!!!! Waiting right past the security sign. Victoria instantly knew who they were and the 3 of them ran and played and laughed together. It was so beautiful! Having been around our little peanut, the boys looked like monsters! They had on their "I'm the big brother" shirts from their Aunt Julie. They just had a blast running around the airport together.
Kid's choice was McDonalds. Again, way too much fun! Will and Logan helped Victoria play in the Playplace. They taught her all she needed to know - except for how to eat. Once it was time to eat, she wanted nothing to do with her nuggets and fries (she gobbled them up in India) and just wanted to play. She lost the battle as Billy finally took her out to the van for some quiet time.
The boys chatted with and "held" Victoria the whole way home. The three of them sat in the back of the van together with her in the middle. So precious. And we finally got home sweet home! It was surreal carrying her into her home - right were she belongs.
What a wonderful reunion - our whole family finally together! All is well.
Our Last Days in India
After the visa processing we were completely ready to get home. We were wishing we had an earlier flight. Delhi is not as nice as Bangalore. When we were flying into Delhi from Bangalore the pilot even said that there was "a cover of fog - actually it's smog". Not pretty! The sun looked orange much of the day and we could even see the smog inside the airport.
We took Victoria swimming at the Metropolitan. It was very cold. She liked it at first, but then when Billy dipped her to near her neck, she was NOT happy! We promptly left. However, she does enjoy water. She'll play in her tubby until she turns pruny!
We didn't thoroughly enjoy the Metropolitan. Breakfast was good (and free), but everything else was way too expensive. To use the internet for 30 minutes was going to b e $6.00. I just couldn't pay it after what we were already paying to stay there. However, it was safe, clean and the hot showers were GREAT!
On Tuesday we went to the zoo. Our driver (who was becoming quite annoying by now) wanted to join us for the day. A couple times he took us to places we didn't want to go. One time we wanted him to take us to McDonalds and he said there was not one close. So he took us to an expensive restaurant (which he said was not expensive). We chose not to eat there and went back out to the vehicle and told him it was expensive. (He did not look happy.) He then proceeded to drive a few kilometers to......a McDonalds!!! Another time he told us the Dili Haat shopping area was closed and took us to the Delhi Haat. We promptly left the place without buying anything. Again, he was not happy with us. We're thinking he would get a share of what we spent there. He also tried a couple times to overcharge us for parking in different areas. We watched for signs and corrected him once. (Not happy again.) So at the zoo, Billy finally told him we needed some family time and he went his own way. Victoria wanted to be held most of the time. The zoo was very quiet. A few school groups and a few people. A group of young guys, one in particular, kept following us and taking pictures. We did see some neat animals, some native to India and it was a bit of a reprieve from the chaos of Delhi.
Then we ate at McDonalds and went back to the hotel to rest and shower before heading out to dinner and the airport.
Our flight didn't leave until 12:50 that night, so we paid to get a late check-out. We went out to dinner. Victoria slept for a while at the restaurant. We walked around some stores for a bit and then had our driver take us to the airport. We arrived about 9:45, thinking we were way too early. However, it took us nearly 3 hours to check in and get through all the security! It seemed like forever!!! And we had some souvenirs packed in a carry-on and totally forgot that there was a knife in there. OOOPS! Sorry about your Christmas present, Brett. I'm just glad they didn't haul Billy off! We got to our gate in time to sit for a a bit and use the restroom.
Victoria did wonderful on the 15 hour plane ride. Only the last 3o minutes or so did she cry. We think her ears hurt. She played, ripped magazines and slept. It was such a long flight, but we made it through and it could have been much worse.
We took Victoria swimming at the Metropolitan. It was very cold. She liked it at first, but then when Billy dipped her to near her neck, she was NOT happy! We promptly left. However, she does enjoy water. She'll play in her tubby until she turns pruny!
We didn't thoroughly enjoy the Metropolitan. Breakfast was good (and free), but everything else was way too expensive. To use the internet for 30 minutes was going to b e $6.00. I just couldn't pay it after what we were already paying to stay there. However, it was safe, clean and the hot showers were GREAT!
On Tuesday we went to the zoo. Our driver (who was becoming quite annoying by now) wanted to join us for the day. A couple times he took us to places we didn't want to go. One time we wanted him to take us to McDonalds and he said there was not one close. So he took us to an expensive restaurant (which he said was not expensive). We chose not to eat there and went back out to the vehicle and told him it was expensive. (He did not look happy.) He then proceeded to drive a few kilometers to......a McDonalds!!! Another time he told us the Dili Haat shopping area was closed and took us to the Delhi Haat. We promptly left the place without buying anything. Again, he was not happy with us. We're thinking he would get a share of what we spent there. He also tried a couple times to overcharge us for parking in different areas. We watched for signs and corrected him once. (Not happy again.) So at the zoo, Billy finally told him we needed some family time and he went his own way. Victoria wanted to be held most of the time. The zoo was very quiet. A few school groups and a few people. A group of young guys, one in particular, kept following us and taking pictures. We did see some neat animals, some native to India and it was a bit of a reprieve from the chaos of Delhi.
Then we ate at McDonalds and went back to the hotel to rest and shower before heading out to dinner and the airport.
Our flight didn't leave until 12:50 that night, so we paid to get a late check-out. We went out to dinner. Victoria slept for a while at the restaurant. We walked around some stores for a bit and then had our driver take us to the airport. We arrived about 9:45, thinking we were way too early. However, it took us nearly 3 hours to check in and get through all the security! It seemed like forever!!! And we had some souvenirs packed in a carry-on and totally forgot that there was a knife in there. OOOPS! Sorry about your Christmas present, Brett. I'm just glad they didn't haul Billy off! We got to our gate in time to sit for a a bit and use the restroom.
Victoria did wonderful on the 15 hour plane ride. Only the last 3o minutes or so did she cry. We think her ears hurt. She played, ripped magazines and slept. It was such a long flight, but we made it through and it could have been much worse.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Visa Processing
On Monday we did Victoria's Immigrant Visa processing. It went WONDERFUL. We had our interview appt. at 12:00 so had to get her medical done before that. Our driver picked us up and we went straight to Dr. Chawalas office for her medical check up. We waited outside for about 30 minutes. Victoria and her dad read the paper together and she played on the grass for a while. Then we waited in the waiting room inside for a bit. We were finally called in. Victoria had to get 4 immunizations at $160.00! Ouch for all of us! And it wasn't quick and painless. The nurse didn't do them all at once very quickly like they do in the States. I could have cried with my little girl! She did get a sucker which helped matters. We waited a while longer and received our paperwork. We were there a total of about 2 1/2 hours.
We headed over to the embassy. It was interesting driving by other various embassies. And it was a breath of fresh air (well, kind of - we were still breathing Delhi smog) being on our own turf even if it only consisted of a square block or less. We received our number and went to the waiting room which was packed with people waiting for visas of various kinds. Lucky us to be adopting for they rush you right through. We immediately were able to go to one of the windows to turn in our paperwork. The lady asked for a few of our documents, we paid the fee and waited for our interview. During that time Victoria played with blocks at a little table. I used the restroom. It actually smelled like bathroom cleaner from America and had TP too! (Maybe that's what part of the visa fee went for? $400.00 well spent I'll say!)
A nice lady called us to the window for our interview. She spoke English with no accent. She asked us a few questions and continued to process our paperwork. She said we could come back the next day to pick up Victoria's visa or get it that same day between 3:00 and 4:00pm. We opted to go ahead and get it that day and just be done with it.
We had our driver take us to eat and then returned about 3:00 and got Victoria's visa! What a moment of relief for me! The paperwork was COMPLETE and we could hop on a plane and take our girl home!!!!! Not even a little hiccup. And done in one day! Most families take 3 days to complete the medical and visa processing. We chose to try in two days because the embassy was closed on Veteran's Day. This was a great blessing in disguise.
We also me a wonderful Christian man who was having a difficult time getting his wife's visa. He is American, she is Indian and they have a little baby together. Say a prayer that he won't have to wait any longer and can get his family home where they belong as well.
Thank you, Lord, for guiding and directing each and every step of this day!
We headed over to the embassy. It was interesting driving by other various embassies. And it was a breath of fresh air (well, kind of - we were still breathing Delhi smog) being on our own turf even if it only consisted of a square block or less. We received our number and went to the waiting room which was packed with people waiting for visas of various kinds. Lucky us to be adopting for they rush you right through. We immediately were able to go to one of the windows to turn in our paperwork. The lady asked for a few of our documents, we paid the fee and waited for our interview. During that time Victoria played with blocks at a little table. I used the restroom. It actually smelled like bathroom cleaner from America and had TP too! (Maybe that's what part of the visa fee went for? $400.00 well spent I'll say!)
A nice lady called us to the window for our interview. She spoke English with no accent. She asked us a few questions and continued to process our paperwork. She said we could come back the next day to pick up Victoria's visa or get it that same day between 3:00 and 4:00pm. We opted to go ahead and get it that day and just be done with it.
We had our driver take us to eat and then returned about 3:00 and got Victoria's visa! What a moment of relief for me! The paperwork was COMPLETE and we could hop on a plane and take our girl home!!!!! Not even a little hiccup. And done in one day! Most families take 3 days to complete the medical and visa processing. We chose to try in two days because the embassy was closed on Veteran's Day. This was a great blessing in disguise.
We also me a wonderful Christian man who was having a difficult time getting his wife's visa. He is American, she is Indian and they have a little baby together. Say a prayer that he won't have to wait any longer and can get his family home where they belong as well.
Thank you, Lord, for guiding and directing each and every step of this day!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Our First Few Days with Victoria
What a joy our first few days with Victoria were! We got back to the Jayamahal Palace and changed Victoria into some more comfortable clothing. She had been in a very dressy dress which was not nearly as conducive to cuddling, although super cute! We walked her around the grounds of the hotel and just spent time getting to know each other. She had a few moments of teary eyes that day, but let us comfort her. She instantly became Daddy's girl and, much to my horror, preferred Daddy over Mommy. But God knows what He's doing, because they NEEDED to bond these first few days before Billy headed back to work. She is wrapped around his little finger and he has lost his heart - never to find it again!
We had dinner at the Jayamahal Palace. The owner/manager gave us complimentary wine and mango ice cream for Victoria. The management was so sweet there and very accomodating. They doted all over our princess.
We met one gentleman who was in some sort of management there, (wrote his name down, but can't remember it right now), who had been adopted and was compeletly sold out to God. We had a wonderful conversation with him and it was such a time of encouragement to our spirits.
We gave her a bath that evening and she filled and dumped a cup of water over and over again and had so much fun doing so. I believe it was theraputic for her. Victoria slept great that night and has ever since. She is quite adaptable. Will fall asleep most anywhere. Probably comes from her experiences of having to soothe herself.
The next day, Saturday, we explored Bangalore a bit with Victoria. It is such a big city! Much prettier than Delhi we think, but it stretches on endlessly. We spent more time at the hotel exploring the grounds and visiting with the staff. If we took Victoria to the room, she just wanted to put her "slippers" (shoes) on and go back out.
When happy and relaxed, she chatters endlessly in Telugu. We know a few choice words, but otherwise don't have a clue what she's saying. She understands much of what we say - although often pretends otherwise, especially if it's "no".
We flew out early Sunday morning for Delhi to do the visa processing. We were NOT looking forward to going back to Delhi or doing the visa processing. But we were staying at a nice hotel and knew God had all of the processing covered.
We had dinner at the Jayamahal Palace. The owner/manager gave us complimentary wine and mango ice cream for Victoria. The management was so sweet there and very accomodating. They doted all over our princess.
We met one gentleman who was in some sort of management there, (wrote his name down, but can't remember it right now), who had been adopted and was compeletly sold out to God. We had a wonderful conversation with him and it was such a time of encouragement to our spirits.
We gave her a bath that evening and she filled and dumped a cup of water over and over again and had so much fun doing so. I believe it was theraputic for her. Victoria slept great that night and has ever since. She is quite adaptable. Will fall asleep most anywhere. Probably comes from her experiences of having to soothe herself.
The next day, Saturday, we explored Bangalore a bit with Victoria. It is such a big city! Much prettier than Delhi we think, but it stretches on endlessly. We spent more time at the hotel exploring the grounds and visiting with the staff. If we took Victoria to the room, she just wanted to put her "slippers" (shoes) on and go back out.
When happy and relaxed, she chatters endlessly in Telugu. We know a few choice words, but otherwise don't have a clue what she's saying. She understands much of what we say - although often pretends otherwise, especially if it's "no".
We flew out early Sunday morning for Delhi to do the visa processing. We were NOT looking forward to going back to Delhi or doing the visa processing. But we were staying at a nice hotel and knew God had all of the processing covered.
Picking Up Victoria at VCT
No apologies for not blogging over the past week. I've just been focused on the family. :) But I'll try to catch up a bit. There's simply to much to say, but I can highlight a bit.
Friday morning our driver picked us up from the Jayamahal Palace about 10:15am. It wasn't the driver from VCT because that one was picking kids up from school, so we hired a cab. We had to WAIT 15 minutes for him to get there. Then he couldn't find VCT!!!! We were in the general vicinity, but it took about 45 minutes instead of 25. I thought this was the day when the waiting would end!!!!
We finally arrived and took some pictures outside. We simply walked on in and a lady directed us upstairs. We explored as we went, not knowing where our little girl was. We got to the top floor and walked past some offices and found the director's office. THERE SHE WAS!!!! My beautiful Victoria!!! She was in the director's office with her foster mom and sister. We could tell she recognized us, but was quite shy. We sat down in the chairs and spent some time gently getting to know her. We had a few toys for her which she would take and then walk away with them. (Did not fulfill the intended purpose.) After some time, she got more and more comfortable with us. I was able to hold her on my lap for a bit.
Then she got real comfortable, realized she was the center of everyone's attention, and all personality broke loose! We spent the next hour or so chasing her around the offices and up and down the stairs of VCT. She had a big bag of candy and she handed pieces out to everyone. We took pictures of her and her foster family, talked a lot with her foster sister who speaks good English and spoke with Mary Paul, the director, for a while.
Then VCT served us lunch downstairs. Our first meal with our girl! We weren't sure how the day was supposed to go or when we should leave, etc..... It was very unstructured, but relaxed and we spent a total of about 3 hours there. Mary Paul said we were free to go whenever we wanted. No showing ID, or signing papers or an interview. NOTHING! That had all been done the past 2 years. We were there to simply pick her up! It was weird - for lack of a more creative word.
Victoria said her goodbyes. I gave the foster mom and sister a big hug and we walked her to the vehicle. (One of VCT's drivers this time.) She was so excited and happy to come with us. She waved goodbye from the window of the car and we drove off with our little pumpkin! A few minutes later she was asleep on my lap. Whew! What a day for all of us!
It was very overwhelming in some ways for all of us. We were so excited to finally receive our daughter, but not knowing 'how it would go' or 'how she would do' and realizing the magnitude of what we were doing weighed on us. There were moments of "what are we getting into!!!" But peace overflowing, too. We had expected great things from God in regards to our reunion with Victoria and He so delivered!
Friday morning our driver picked us up from the Jayamahal Palace about 10:15am. It wasn't the driver from VCT because that one was picking kids up from school, so we hired a cab. We had to WAIT 15 minutes for him to get there. Then he couldn't find VCT!!!! We were in the general vicinity, but it took about 45 minutes instead of 25. I thought this was the day when the waiting would end!!!!
We finally arrived and took some pictures outside. We simply walked on in and a lady directed us upstairs. We explored as we went, not knowing where our little girl was. We got to the top floor and walked past some offices and found the director's office. THERE SHE WAS!!!! My beautiful Victoria!!! She was in the director's office with her foster mom and sister. We could tell she recognized us, but was quite shy. We sat down in the chairs and spent some time gently getting to know her. We had a few toys for her which she would take and then walk away with them. (Did not fulfill the intended purpose.) After some time, she got more and more comfortable with us. I was able to hold her on my lap for a bit.
Then she got real comfortable, realized she was the center of everyone's attention, and all personality broke loose! We spent the next hour or so chasing her around the offices and up and down the stairs of VCT. She had a big bag of candy and she handed pieces out to everyone. We took pictures of her and her foster family, talked a lot with her foster sister who speaks good English and spoke with Mary Paul, the director, for a while.
Then VCT served us lunch downstairs. Our first meal with our girl! We weren't sure how the day was supposed to go or when we should leave, etc..... It was very unstructured, but relaxed and we spent a total of about 3 hours there. Mary Paul said we were free to go whenever we wanted. No showing ID, or signing papers or an interview. NOTHING! That had all been done the past 2 years. We were there to simply pick her up! It was weird - for lack of a more creative word.
Victoria said her goodbyes. I gave the foster mom and sister a big hug and we walked her to the vehicle. (One of VCT's drivers this time.) She was so excited and happy to come with us. She waved goodbye from the window of the car and we drove off with our little pumpkin! A few minutes later she was asleep on my lap. Whew! What a day for all of us!
It was very overwhelming in some ways for all of us. We were so excited to finally receive our daughter, but not knowing 'how it would go' or 'how she would do' and realizing the magnitude of what we were doing weighed on us. There were moments of "what are we getting into!!!" But peace overflowing, too. We had expected great things from God in regards to our reunion with Victoria and He so delivered!
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Can't Process It All!
My thoughts without any flare ~
Enjoying India - most aspects anyway. Tired of the city. Spent a day out in the country. Saw wild Indian elephants. A monkey stole my orange juice. I laughed at him when it all spilled from the tree. Such beautiful landscape. Missing American food. Missing my boys even more. Can't wait to pick up Victoria. Not looking forward to embassy paperwork in Delhi or the plane ride home. Counting on God to get us through. Want to be at home with the family all settled in. Getting better at eating with my hands. Gleaning many great cultural insights from Tim and Karla. Surreal shopping for saris with Karla. Still waking up at 4:00am. Looking forward to relaxing at the Jayamahal Palace. Praying Victoria will want to go swimming there. Thankful for such an amazing experience in India. Thankful we're feeling healthy and rested. Not much time to blog. ;)
Enjoying India - most aspects anyway. Tired of the city. Spent a day out in the country. Saw wild Indian elephants. A monkey stole my orange juice. I laughed at him when it all spilled from the tree. Such beautiful landscape. Missing American food. Missing my boys even more. Can't wait to pick up Victoria. Not looking forward to embassy paperwork in Delhi or the plane ride home. Counting on God to get us through. Want to be at home with the family all settled in. Getting better at eating with my hands. Gleaning many great cultural insights from Tim and Karla. Surreal shopping for saris with Karla. Still waking up at 4:00am. Looking forward to relaxing at the Jayamahal Palace. Praying Victoria will want to go swimming there. Thankful for such an amazing experience in India. Thankful we're feeling healthy and rested. Not much time to blog. ;)
Sunday, November 1, 2009
A Week in Review
Not sure how to sum up a week in India. Simply can't be done. I blogged the first night we were here, but lost it and went to bed instead of doing it all over.
Our plane flight was good, but long. It was 14 hours, but only seemed like 13 1/2!
We are having an amazing time here. We took 2 days to explore Delhi and Agra where the Taj is. God has given us great drivers and tour guides.
Jet lag is still hitting us about 4:00am and then at about 4:00pm. Billy has a bit of flu, but we're believing that will be gone very quickly.
Had an amazing time worshiping with the people here this morning. Billy preached the English service and the Kannada service with an interpreter. I had the opportunity to teach a Sunday School class with small children.
We are missing our boys and can't wait to get our daughter. Only 5-6 days to go!!!
There, I summed it up. That's all for now from this jet-lagged traveler. India is incredible and we are so blessed to be here.
Our plane flight was good, but long. It was 14 hours, but only seemed like 13 1/2!
We are having an amazing time here. We took 2 days to explore Delhi and Agra where the Taj is. God has given us great drivers and tour guides.
Jet lag is still hitting us about 4:00am and then at about 4:00pm. Billy has a bit of flu, but we're believing that will be gone very quickly.
Had an amazing time worshiping with the people here this morning. Billy preached the English service and the Kannada service with an interpreter. I had the opportunity to teach a Sunday School class with small children.
We are missing our boys and can't wait to get our daughter. Only 5-6 days to go!!!
There, I summed it up. That's all for now from this jet-lagged traveler. India is incredible and we are so blessed to be here.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Thank you!
Two more days until "blast off"!!! We are putting together the final details of our trip and trusting God for a few more to fall into place. Please pray these loose ends will be tied up!
We want to take a moment to thank all of you for your support in so many ways. Whether simple encouragement, financial gifts, prayers or giving of basic needs for Victoria, it has all helped to bring our daughter home. We are so grateful to all our family and friends who have rallied around us the past 2 years.
We ask that you continue to pray even more for us as we bring Victoria home. Pray that she will bond well with each of us and to be comforted by the true Comforter during her time of grief from separating from her foster family. Pray for Will and Logan that they will have understanding and simply have FUN with their little sister. Pray for them as they are separated from us as we travel. Pray for Mom and Dad, too!
We have a rainbow of emotions as we prepare to travel. We stand upon the promises God has given to us concerning Victoria over the past 2 years. We will need Him even more and know He is faithful to equip us for the task ahead. And we can't wait to watch the blessings continue to rain down.
We will try to update our blog as we travel. Thank you for all your prayers and support!
We want to take a moment to thank all of you for your support in so many ways. Whether simple encouragement, financial gifts, prayers or giving of basic needs for Victoria, it has all helped to bring our daughter home. We are so grateful to all our family and friends who have rallied around us the past 2 years.
We ask that you continue to pray even more for us as we bring Victoria home. Pray that she will bond well with each of us and to be comforted by the true Comforter during her time of grief from separating from her foster family. Pray for Will and Logan that they will have understanding and simply have FUN with their little sister. Pray for them as they are separated from us as we travel. Pray for Mom and Dad, too!
We have a rainbow of emotions as we prepare to travel. We stand upon the promises God has given to us concerning Victoria over the past 2 years. We will need Him even more and know He is faithful to equip us for the task ahead. And we can't wait to watch the blessings continue to rain down.
We will try to update our blog as we travel. Thank you for all your prayers and support!
Our Itinerary
Monday, Oct. 26 - Depart Indianapolis at 5:50pm
Tuesday, Oct. 27 - Arrive in Delhi 8:45pm
Wednesday, Oct. 28 - Hang out in Delhi
Thursday, Oct. 29 - Go to Agra/Taj Mahal
Friday, Oct. 30 - Fly to Bangalore, drive to Shamalas in Mysore
Friday Oct. 30 - Wed. Nov. 4th - Visit with Shamalas
Wed., Nov. 4 - Drive to Bangalore
Thurs. Nov. 5 - Hang out in Bangalore
Friday, Nov. 6 - VICTORIA DAY!!!
Saturday, Nov. 7 - Play with Victoria in Bangalore
Sunday, Nov. 8 - Fly back to Delhi
Monday, Nov. 9 - Do Visa processing (blah, blah, blah)
Tuesday, Nov. 10 - Pick up Visa - fly out at 12:55am that night
Wed., Nov. 11 - 9:50am - Will and Logan meet their little sister for the 1st time at the airport in Indy!
And the adventure begins!!!
Tuesday, Oct. 27 - Arrive in Delhi 8:45pm
Wednesday, Oct. 28 - Hang out in Delhi
Thursday, Oct. 29 - Go to Agra/Taj Mahal
Friday, Oct. 30 - Fly to Bangalore, drive to Shamalas in Mysore
Friday Oct. 30 - Wed. Nov. 4th - Visit with Shamalas
Wed., Nov. 4 - Drive to Bangalore
Thurs. Nov. 5 - Hang out in Bangalore
Friday, Nov. 6 - VICTORIA DAY!!!
Saturday, Nov. 7 - Play with Victoria in Bangalore
Sunday, Nov. 8 - Fly back to Delhi
Monday, Nov. 9 - Do Visa processing (blah, blah, blah)
Tuesday, Nov. 10 - Pick up Visa - fly out at 12:55am that night
Wed., Nov. 11 - 9:50am - Will and Logan meet their little sister for the 1st time at the airport in Indy!
And the adventure begins!!!
Monday, October 12, 2009
Pre-Departure Report
Below is some information from Victoria's Pre-Departure Report. She is still at 26#. Our little pumpkin is toilet trained and knows some English. Whew!! I hope she's not disappointed when this mama doesn't serve "all fresh home made food". And I'm not sure about the 8:30 dinner. The boys won't like it that she's eating while they're going to bed. ;-)
Eating Habits:
Victoria Rani has all fresh home made food.
Her mealtimes are as follows:
8.00 a.m: Fresh milk with Horlicks – (Pasteurized milk)
9.00 a.m: Breakfast – Dosa a pancake made with ground rice and lentils and
idli’s steamed with the same batter, Chapathi/ Uppma, a snack
made with broken wheat etc.
11.00 a.m: Snacks – biscuits, sweets or fruits
2.00 p.m: Lunch - rice with dhal/ greens/ veg or non-veg
(Chicken/mutton/fish)
4.00 p.m Milk and snacks
8.30 p.m: Dinner – Rice with veg/non veg.
Sleeping Pattern:
Victoria sleeps with her foster mother in the same room. She sleeps around 9.30
pm and sleeps well at night. She also has a nap in the afternoon.
Toilet Habits:
Victoria has body bath daily and head bath twice a week. She is toilet trained.
Health:
All her medical reports are attached in the file. Please refer to physical reports
and doctor’s report for medical information.
Personality:
Congratulations on having Victoria as a new member of your family. She is a
friendly child and loves to play with the neighbors children and the foster sisters.
She understands English and also the local language – Telugu – which are more
often used by her foster family. She is very much attached to the foster family
and knows the names of each of members in the foster home.
She is interested in drawing, colouring, and also loves dance. She can repeat A
to Z and 1 to 10.
All her responses are normal and age appropriate.
Eating Habits:
Victoria Rani has all fresh home made food.
Her mealtimes are as follows:
8.00 a.m: Fresh milk with Horlicks – (Pasteurized milk)
9.00 a.m: Breakfast – Dosa a pancake made with ground rice and lentils and
idli’s steamed with the same batter, Chapathi/ Uppma, a snack
made with broken wheat etc.
11.00 a.m: Snacks – biscuits, sweets or fruits
2.00 p.m: Lunch - rice with dhal/ greens/ veg or non-veg
(Chicken/mutton/fish)
4.00 p.m Milk and snacks
8.30 p.m: Dinner – Rice with veg/non veg.
Sleeping Pattern:
Victoria sleeps with her foster mother in the same room. She sleeps around 9.30
pm and sleeps well at night. She also has a nap in the afternoon.
Toilet Habits:
Victoria has body bath daily and head bath twice a week. She is toilet trained.
Health:
All her medical reports are attached in the file. Please refer to physical reports
and doctor’s report for medical information.
Personality:
Congratulations on having Victoria as a new member of your family. She is a
friendly child and loves to play with the neighbors children and the foster sisters.
She understands English and also the local language – Telugu – which are more
often used by her foster family. She is very much attached to the foster family
and knows the names of each of members in the foster home.
She is interested in drawing, colouring, and also loves dance. She can repeat A
to Z and 1 to 10.
All her responses are normal and age appropriate.
Tickets Are Purchased!
Big sigh! And a deep breath for continuing to plan our itinerary. We are scheduled to depart on Monday, October 26th, pick up Victoria on Friday, November 6th and return home on Wednesday, November 11th. We are currently in the process of booking hotel rooms and assembling other details of our trip.
Families generally allow 3 days to complete the embassy processing in Delhi. However, we are running into Veteran's Day. We plan to process in 2 days, which can be done. We're just taking a bit more of a risk. Pray that we will be able to get it all done in those 2 days and not have the extra expense and head ache of extending our trip.
We are so excited to go explore India, to meet our daughter for the first time and get back home to our boys.
Families generally allow 3 days to complete the embassy processing in Delhi. However, we are running into Veteran's Day. We plan to process in 2 days, which can be done. We're just taking a bit more of a risk. Pray that we will be able to get it all done in those 2 days and not have the extra expense and head ache of extending our trip.
We are so excited to go explore India, to meet our daughter for the first time and get back home to our boys.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Passport is in!!!!
VCT finally received Victoria's passport and we received a scanned copy of it yesterday!!!!!!!!!!! Praise the Lord! We knew this day would eventually come and now it's finally here!!!! We are working with our travel agent to get airline tickets and hotels booked. Prayerfully we will be able to purchase our tickets on Monday. We plan to depart in about 2 weeks.
There is simply so much to do! I am thankful that Will and Logan are on Fall Break so I can spend more time with them and I won't be subbing either. God works all the extra waiting for His good!
There is simply so much to do! I am thankful that Will and Logan are on Fall Break so I can spend more time with them and I won't be subbing either. God works all the extra waiting for His good!
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Passport Should Be On It's Way!
We are still awaiting Victoria's Indian passport. Holt asked about it and found out that her passport was mailed from the passport office to VCT on Monday (our Sunday night). When VCT gets it, they will scan a copy to Holt and Holt will e-mail us a copy. And they'll finally call us, too!!!! Yes, I think we're truly about to get "the call"!!! My heart jumps when the phone rings, and yes, I've been short with some people when it hasn't been Dean Hale or Mary Reynolds.
This past weekend was very difficult. I truly did not want to go another weekend without any news. However, God's mercies are new each and every morning. Sunday morning was amazing in such an intimate way with the Lord and a dear friend gave a Word from God over Victoria and I. Once again, I marvel at how He works and His love for us.
Today a friend came by and dropped off some gifts for us. She gave Victoria two beautiful dark dolls. One looks so much like Victoria. She also had a Bible for her and some good ol' cash for the boys. What a fun blessing!
The boys are on Fall Break for two weeks beginning next week. As much as I wish we were in India right now, I'm looking forward to having time off of school, too and being able to spend those two weeks with them, albeit doing a lot of packing and planning.
This past weekend was very difficult. I truly did not want to go another weekend without any news. However, God's mercies are new each and every morning. Sunday morning was amazing in such an intimate way with the Lord and a dear friend gave a Word from God over Victoria and I. Once again, I marvel at how He works and His love for us.
Today a friend came by and dropped off some gifts for us. She gave Victoria two beautiful dark dolls. One looks so much like Victoria. She also had a Bible for her and some good ol' cash for the boys. What a fun blessing!
The boys are on Fall Break for two weeks beginning next week. As much as I wish we were in India right now, I'm looking forward to having time off of school, too and being able to spend those two weeks with them, albeit doing a lot of packing and planning.
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Making Progress
Mary at Holt called on Monday and said Victoria's passport should take a minimum of 15 days and that VCT filed for it on Sept. 3. It should be here NOW!!! We also got ICPC approval today, so now all we're waiting on is her passport. Fed-Ex also delivered the original court order and birth affidavit to us today. An exciting day of progress, but still waiting on the final call!!!
We're headed up to Michigan this weekend for Christy's wedding. Looking forward to hanging with the family, but I may be talking to our travel agent during the ceremony. :)
We're headed up to Michigan this weekend for Christy's wedding. Looking forward to hanging with the family, but I may be talking to our travel agent during the ceremony. :)
Friday, September 18, 2009
Verbal ICPC
Found out today that we have verbal ICPC approval. Holt should be receiving the written approval soon. And prayerfully Victoria's passport, too. I'm believing we're going to get "the call" within the next 2 weeks!!! Pray that all our travel plans, including Melissa's parents', fall together once we can book our tickets.
So much to think about and prepare for. We're putting together a "surprise jar" for Will and Logan while we're gone. Every other day or so they can pull a paper out of the jar on which will be written something special for them to find or do.... We're trying to make this time an adventure in their little lives. It hit me last night that we will be leaving them for about 18 days - and soooo far away. UGH!! I'm thankful they will be making priceless memories with their grandparents and I know our trip will be so busy and exciting that we'll soon be back home with them. And I will refrain from crying until we are down the road. God is faithful to keep us close while we're far apart.
So much to think about and prepare for. We're putting together a "surprise jar" for Will and Logan while we're gone. Every other day or so they can pull a paper out of the jar on which will be written something special for them to find or do.... We're trying to make this time an adventure in their little lives. It hit me last night that we will be leaving them for about 18 days - and soooo far away. UGH!! I'm thankful they will be making priceless memories with their grandparents and I know our trip will be so busy and exciting that we'll soon be back home with them. And I will refrain from crying until we are down the road. God is faithful to keep us close while we're far apart.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Written Guardianship!!!
Oh, my, I should have updated this a couple weeks ago! The judge in Bangalore issued written guardianship of Victoria to us on Sept. 3rd!!!! It is very surreal as we read over the 5 page document.
My favorite part: "The petition is allowed. The petitioners 1 and 2 (that's Billy and I) are hereby appointed as the guardians of the minor female child Victoria Rani born on 15.07.2005 with permission to remove the said minor out of jurisdiction of this court, out of India to the USA..."
Hallelujah! Glory to God! She all ours!! The document even refers to Will and Logan. :)
It took us longer than expected to get the written document, but we are getting so close to traveling now! VCT should have Victoria's passport in the next 2 weeks. We are also waiting for ICPC (stateside approval) which will take 1-3 weeks. After these 2 documents are received, we will book our travel and leave within about 2 weeks. In summary, we should be leaving within 6 weeks to get our girl!
Our suitcases are downstairs being filled up, documents are being assembled and photocopied, ideas are being put in the surprise jar for Will and Logan and many prayers are going up!
We sent Victoria what is prayerfully her last card, stickers and pictures. We took a picture of a doll and blanket we're bringing to her. My sister-in-law Julie helped me pick out the doll which has a little puppy and purse with it. It seems so "Victoria".
We are also able to take a gift for another child in foster care in Bangalore from his family here in America who is adopting him. It was like Christmas for me as I opened my friend's package to see what her son would be receiving. A truck, M&M's, disposable cameras and pictures of his forever family.
This wait will come to an end as some point and we'll have Victoria home sweet home.
My favorite part: "The petition is allowed. The petitioners 1 and 2 (that's Billy and I) are hereby appointed as the guardians of the minor female child Victoria Rani born on 15.07.2005 with permission to remove the said minor out of jurisdiction of this court, out of India to the USA..."
Hallelujah! Glory to God! She all ours!! The document even refers to Will and Logan. :)
It took us longer than expected to get the written document, but we are getting so close to traveling now! VCT should have Victoria's passport in the next 2 weeks. We are also waiting for ICPC (stateside approval) which will take 1-3 weeks. After these 2 documents are received, we will book our travel and leave within about 2 weeks. In summary, we should be leaving within 6 weeks to get our girl!
Our suitcases are downstairs being filled up, documents are being assembled and photocopied, ideas are being put in the surprise jar for Will and Logan and many prayers are going up!
We sent Victoria what is prayerfully her last card, stickers and pictures. We took a picture of a doll and blanket we're bringing to her. My sister-in-law Julie helped me pick out the doll which has a little puppy and purse with it. It seems so "Victoria".
We are also able to take a gift for another child in foster care in Bangalore from his family here in America who is adopting him. It was like Christmas for me as I opened my friend's package to see what her son would be receiving. A truck, M&M's, disposable cameras and pictures of his forever family.
This wait will come to an end as some point and we'll have Victoria home sweet home.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
It's About Blue, Too!
I want to comment on how awesome Will and Logan are! They think getting their new sister is the greatest thing ever. I'm so proud of how they have helped and have chosen to sacrifice in their own little ways for her: Making sure she gets a girlie sticker at the bank, setting out all her pictures with their sports trophies, saving fruit snacks for her, drawing pictures for her, helping in all aspects of preparing her room from painting to moving stuff to setting out her dolls, praying for her every night for almost 2 years....the list goes on and on.
Each time we get a new picture of Victoria, Logan HAS TO have a copy for himself. He has them all counted up and knows at any given time just how many pictures we have received of her.
When I made her bed up for the first time, Logan saw it first and ran to get Will saying, "Will, I gotta show you something right now!" Just tonight a good friend of ours, Jacky Hawkins, stopped over and I told her I wanted to show her Victoria's room. Both boys jumped up from eating their snack at the table and ran ahead in order to give her the grand tour of all the "princess pink".
Sometimes they say her name, Victoria, with a funny accent - like the Indian lady does in her referral video. It's so cute. They like to "pat her head" in her pictures or on the computer and they imagine just how tall she is (or isn't) compared to them. They have played with her toys and "washed" her play kitchen. They're ready to play with HER!
They want her to sleep on a mattress on their floor when she comes home. (We're hoping for this for a while to help with bonding.) They even offered to paint part of their room pink or put up a princess poster. We told them their room was theirs and they could keep it how they want it. (I'm thinking they would have had some regrets as soon as a friend came over.)
Please pray for them over the next few months. They will surely miss us when we travel and having Victoria home will be a big adjustment for them. In ways they will sacrifice more, but what they are gaining is so much greater. Pray they will continue to see how wonderful it is to have a little sister. Pray that they will bond quickly with her. Pray their love for her will grow and grow as she molds into our family. Pray that the compassion they already have will grow and pray for understanding beyond their years. Pray they will simply have fun with her as soon as she gets home. We've heard "the stories", but our God is greater and we're believing for a "supernatural" reunion and adjustment.
We are thankful for friends who have blessed our boys in the past few months. When I came home from Victoria's shower, Will was there asking if he could help bring things in. Little did he know there were some things for him, too! What a pleasant surprise for the boys to be blessed on such a special day.
When we first sought the Lord on whether to adopt or not, our first concern was how it would affect Will and Logan and if this is what God's will was for them. We know, without a doubt, what an amazing gift God is not only giving us as parents, but is giving to them. Any parent wants to "spoil" their children with good gifts. How much more does God want to bless us. We're so thankful that God is blessing Will and Logan in such an incredible and creative way. Words can't express what's in my heart. My heart is overflowing with love for my children and for my awesome God!
I can't imagine going through this wait without my boys. They have enriched this process for us in so many ways, have made it more fun and have added so much meaning to it. They don't realize how they "carry" their mama at times. Maybe they will some day. Just by being funny, keeping me too busy, hanging out together or hearing them pray for their sister to come home soon. When I have doubted, they have continued to speak it forth.
Yes, it is true, the pink would not be here without the blue!!
Each time we get a new picture of Victoria, Logan HAS TO have a copy for himself. He has them all counted up and knows at any given time just how many pictures we have received of her.
When I made her bed up for the first time, Logan saw it first and ran to get Will saying, "Will, I gotta show you something right now!" Just tonight a good friend of ours, Jacky Hawkins, stopped over and I told her I wanted to show her Victoria's room. Both boys jumped up from eating their snack at the table and ran ahead in order to give her the grand tour of all the "princess pink".
Sometimes they say her name, Victoria, with a funny accent - like the Indian lady does in her referral video. It's so cute. They like to "pat her head" in her pictures or on the computer and they imagine just how tall she is (or isn't) compared to them. They have played with her toys and "washed" her play kitchen. They're ready to play with HER!
They want her to sleep on a mattress on their floor when she comes home. (We're hoping for this for a while to help with bonding.) They even offered to paint part of their room pink or put up a princess poster. We told them their room was theirs and they could keep it how they want it. (I'm thinking they would have had some regrets as soon as a friend came over.)
Please pray for them over the next few months. They will surely miss us when we travel and having Victoria home will be a big adjustment for them. In ways they will sacrifice more, but what they are gaining is so much greater. Pray they will continue to see how wonderful it is to have a little sister. Pray that they will bond quickly with her. Pray their love for her will grow and grow as she molds into our family. Pray that the compassion they already have will grow and pray for understanding beyond their years. Pray they will simply have fun with her as soon as she gets home. We've heard "the stories", but our God is greater and we're believing for a "supernatural" reunion and adjustment.
We are thankful for friends who have blessed our boys in the past few months. When I came home from Victoria's shower, Will was there asking if he could help bring things in. Little did he know there were some things for him, too! What a pleasant surprise for the boys to be blessed on such a special day.
When we first sought the Lord on whether to adopt or not, our first concern was how it would affect Will and Logan and if this is what God's will was for them. We know, without a doubt, what an amazing gift God is not only giving us as parents, but is giving to them. Any parent wants to "spoil" their children with good gifts. How much more does God want to bless us. We're so thankful that God is blessing Will and Logan in such an incredible and creative way. Words can't express what's in my heart. My heart is overflowing with love for my children and for my awesome God!
I can't imagine going through this wait without my boys. They have enriched this process for us in so many ways, have made it more fun and have added so much meaning to it. They don't realize how they "carry" their mama at times. Maybe they will some day. Just by being funny, keeping me too busy, hanging out together or hearing them pray for their sister to come home soon. When I have doubted, they have continued to speak it forth.
Yes, it is true, the pink would not be here without the blue!!
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Good News (second time around)!!!!
The judge issued verbal guardianship yesterday!!!!!! Hallelujah!!!!! I had sent Mary an e-mail early in the morning asking about the court hearings and signed it: "Believing for good news, Melissa" even though I wasn't 'feeling' it. But I knew to just BELIEVE even when it's looking bleak. And sure enough, she called that afternoon with the news. God has once again given us favor with a judge. Even though it appeared he or she might take their time, our case has gone quickly through the courts. Pray writtens are granted in a timely manner as well.
Our possible timeline:
2 weeks for the written court order to be issued
2-4 weeks for passport and ICPC
can book travel after that
Billy's sister's wedding in Michigan the last weekend of Sept.
Pray we can travel the first week of October!!!!!
Pray for :
The rest of the court process
Financial favor and good airline tickets and hotel rooms
Will and Logan to continue to feel secure as we prepare to leave
Victoria's tender heart
And however else God leads you. We still need prayer - probably even more than before!
My girl's coming home!!!!!
Our possible timeline:
2 weeks for the written court order to be issued
2-4 weeks for passport and ICPC
can book travel after that
Billy's sister's wedding in Michigan the last weekend of Sept.
Pray we can travel the first week of October!!!!!
Pray for :
The rest of the court process
Financial favor and good airline tickets and hotel rooms
Will and Logan to continue to feel secure as we prepare to leave
Victoria's tender heart
And however else God leads you. We still need prayer - probably even more than before!
My girl's coming home!!!!!
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Progress Report
We received our quarterly progress report on Victoria. She has put on 1 pound which brings her to a whopping 25# and 33". Our little peanut is still in a size 2T. But she is healthy and happy. Her speech is improving as well and there was no comment on her motor skills. We believe her growth over the past year has helped in that area. Part of her report said:
"Victoria is fond of pet animals like cat and Dog.She also loves to watch Cartoon
network on TV. She loves to sing and dance. As per her foster sister she is open
to learning new things.She likes to eat non veg food and prefers spicy food to
sweets. The child says words like Amma, Appa, come , go and Kasu (money).
She can use more than two words and make a sentence."
She doesn't appear to be enjoying her headband in the picture. We have yet to see a picture of her with a full-blown smile, but are looking forward to seeing one in person. We pray this is the last report we get. Prayerfully we'll be the ones giving the reports back to India soon.
Setting Out the Dolls
Victoria's room is sooooo close to completely done - finish work and all. We got out some toys and dolls the other day. The boys have been looking forward to this for quite some time. Will bought Victoria a doll at his classroom store last year. They had so much fun setting out some of her things and even playing with her dolls. It was so sweet!
Victoria's American Birthday
How does one celebrate their child's birthday when she's so far away? Get the two boys at home to help! We sang "Happy Birthday" to Victoria before we went to bed on July 14th as she would be getting up soon. I went to bed completely sad knowing I would sleep right through my daughter's birthday. What mom does that? I woke up the next morning not wanting to do a thing. But we busted out a cake mix and frosting and had a blast making the most beautiful cake for Victoria. Will & Logan did most of the decorating. After church that evening, when Dad was finally home, we each made a "wish" for Victoria - what we believed God would do for her - sang, took turns blowing out the 4 candles and ate the cake! It was certainly a bitter-sweet day. Considering we were initially supposed to be traveling close to now made it all the more difficult. However, this will be her last birthday without her forever family.
Victoria's Indian Birthday
We got 3 pictures of Victoria on her 4th birthday. The boys were so excited when they saw the one of her dressed up. You should have seen their faces. And then they saw the picture of her with their pictures and the gift we sent to her (a doll magnet set) and were thrilled she actually received them. They had a cake for her, too. I can make out 4 little candles in the picture. :) Her foster mom is on the left in the picture. Her celebration and pictures all took place at VCT. We are so thankful it appears she had a good birthday with people who love and care for her. This very well could have been her first birthday celebration.
Court Update
Our case has a new judge. Our first court date was held July 22nd. We think anyway. There is another court date set for the 30th. We're not sure if this is a court date because the first one was postponed or if our case is progressing. Holt is inquiring about this and we should know more information in a day or two.
The first court date was initially going to be later, but Ruth, VCT's attorney pleaded with the judge for an earlier court date. This is the only concession the judge gave.
Bangalore courts usually have 3-5 hearings, 2-4 weeks apart. We are continuing to believe for speedy processing. We are thankful SOMETHING is finally happening.
The first court date was initially going to be later, but Ruth, VCT's attorney pleaded with the judge for an earlier court date. This is the only concession the judge gave.
Bangalore courts usually have 3-5 hearings, 2-4 weeks apart. We are continuing to believe for speedy processing. We are thankful SOMETHING is finally happening.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Happy Birthday, Victoria Rani!!!
It's officially 12:00am in India as I type this which makes it your birthday, Victoria! Happy Birthday my sweet princess! I pray you have a wonderful day with your foster family. I know they love and care for you. But, oh, how we wish you were here so we could celebrate your life and special day with you, but we know God will bring you home soon. Your mama is quite sad today because you're not here and it's taking longer to get you than we thought. But I am continually thankful and happy, too, that God is bringing you into my life.
Tomorrow, on our July 15th here in the United States, we will enjoy cake and sing to you. Will, Logan and I are going to set up some of your toys in your room to celebrate. They have been waiting for me to finish painting your furniture so they can put the finishing touches on your room and I'm finally done painting! I hope you like pink!
Did you get the present we sent to you? We hope you like the princess magnets we chose for you. On your 4th birthday, know that you are the most beautiful princess, created by your loving Father, hand-picked just for our family and we love you very much! I can't wait to hug you and play with you!
Love,
Mama
Tomorrow, on our July 15th here in the United States, we will enjoy cake and sing to you. Will, Logan and I are going to set up some of your toys in your room to celebrate. They have been waiting for me to finish painting your furniture so they can put the finishing touches on your room and I'm finally done painting! I hope you like pink!
Did you get the present we sent to you? We hope you like the princess magnets we chose for you. On your 4th birthday, know that you are the most beautiful princess, created by your loving Father, hand-picked just for our family and we love you very much! I can't wait to hug you and play with you!
Love,
Mama
Monday, July 6, 2009
Brief, very brief, update
Here's an update from VCT:
"Victoria-- Ruth, VCT's attorney, is in court and says nothing has happened as yet., She is hopeful the judge will issue the notice for the refiling of the 2 cases which means that the case will come in for hearing soon. We have no idea as of now how soon that would be. " --end of VCT update.
There are 2 cases because another family is in the exact same situation as us.
Yep, that's about it. Thanks in advance for your continued prayers. It has now been a month since our whole process came to a halt.
"Victoria-- Ruth, VCT's attorney, is in court and says nothing has happened as yet., She is hopeful the judge will issue the notice for the refiling of the 2 cases which means that the case will come in for hearing soon. We have no idea as of now how soon that would be. " --end of VCT update.
There are 2 cases because another family is in the exact same situation as us.
Yep, that's about it. Thanks in advance for your continued prayers. It has now been a month since our whole process came to a halt.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
More Bureaucracy
We received a call from Dean a couple weeks ago and he said that the judge which has our case is being "transferred". Judges are rotated in India. So VCT's attorney, Ruth, is trying to get our case to a new judge so we don't have to WAIT for the replacement to come in. We got an e-mail from Dean yesterday that said Ruth was meeting with the judge and the judge was going to make some sort of decision on how to proceed. That's a long story made quite short. There is another family in our same situation. Keep praying!!!! We should know a little something more today - hopefully before the 4th. Just knowing something helps in the waiting.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
An Unexpected Update!
We unexpectedly received an update and two new pics of Victoria. Yeah! We're thinking they're calling her "Rani". Hmmm. We've been wanting a nickname, but figured one would evolve after she came home. And we had considered calling her Rani. Love that name, too! Below is the update from VCT. Please note - I think we shall refrain from putting crayons in the little desk in her room. We're glad she is adjusting to her foster family so well.
"VICTORIA RANI--
Victoria Rani has made some improvements in her communication. She speaks a few telugu words (language of Andhra Pradesh) and a bit of English. She says 'Ani' for 'Rani' when asked her name. She walks behind her foster mother when she sweeps and swabs the home and points out little things. She loves to go out and chooses her own dresses. She is very fond of her foster father and spends quality time with him in the mornings and evenings. She looks forward to the evenings when her foster sisters return from college.
Her wake up time is 6.30 when she has her milk. After her bath she is given her breakfast about 8.30 and she loves Dosa, which is a pancake made of ground rice and lentil. She is not too fond of sweets and prefers her chicken egg and other non vegetarian food.She has 21 teeth which makes it easy to go for her choice food.:-)) Rani scribbles on paper and on the walls in her home. She is of course corrected, but it does happen once in a while. She is wary of strangers and bonds only after much assurance from the family." --end of email
"VICTORIA RANI--
Victoria Rani has made some improvements in her communication. She speaks a few telugu words (language of Andhra Pradesh) and a bit of English. She says 'Ani' for 'Rani' when asked her name. She walks behind her foster mother when she sweeps and swabs the home and points out little things. She loves to go out and chooses her own dresses. She is very fond of her foster father and spends quality time with him in the mornings and evenings. She looks forward to the evenings when her foster sisters return from college.
Her wake up time is 6.30 when she has her milk. After her bath she is given her breakfast about 8.30 and she loves Dosa, which is a pancake made of ground rice and lentil. She is not too fond of sweets and prefers her chicken egg and other non vegetarian food.She has 21 teeth which makes it easy to go for her choice food.:-)) Rani scribbles on paper and on the walls in her home. She is of course corrected, but it does happen once in a while. She is wary of strangers and bonds only after much assurance from the family." --end of email
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Frustrating Setback
We got a phone call from Dean, head of the India Department at Holt, on Friday and he basically said this: We received verbal guardianship the end of May and VCT, the orphanage, told the judge NOT to write the court order yet because we had not received this other letter yet from our government. Well, the judge went ahead and did the court order. Now the court order is dated before this other letter - which is out of order and is not allowed.... VCT, the attorney and the judge talked in closed chambers and asked if they could just change the date, but they can't/won't. So now we're back to the beginning. Dean said it would be two more months - until what he wasn't sure. I'm going to call and ask a few more questions tomorrow. We know God can push this through again very quickly and we're believing for that! Please pray with us. We want
Friday was such a hard day. In the midst of all my frustration and breaking heart, I realized even more how I dearly love
Also, Billy was gone on an overnight fishing trip and shortly after I called him with the icky news, he found this really cool neck pillow at their cabin - the kind of pillow you wear on a super long plane flight. He just knew God was confirming that we're eventually going.... And I began to be concerned about finances because flights to
We knew going into this process that there would likely be delays, especially as our case went through the world renowned bureaucracy of
We have our immunizations, the room is painted (still need the border up) the travel folder is being assembled and I'm not going to stop packing! When I broke the news to the boys, their biggest concern was that
Please continue to pray for favor for our case and for
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Will's Big Purchase
Will came home from school the other day with a ....... doll! Not the norm for our 1st grader. His class is studying economics and they have a store in the class. They earn pennies and can spend them on Friday when the store opens. Will saved his pennies for two weeks to buy the doll for Victoria! He's even a savvy shopper! He said, "Mom, I had my eye on it and it went from 30 cents to 20 cents!" He took a risk of being teased as well. What a man! I'm so proud of him.
Monday, May 18, 2009
When all of me is overwhelmed, I will cling to the Rock!
Yep, that's what I'm doing. As our travel date becomes closer and closer, there is simply more and more to do and think about! We are taking one day at a time in preparing for Victoria and our trip to India. As I plan, I am surprised at how truly multifaceted this trip is. I'm thankful we have experience traveling with small children before, but never a girl, whom we don't know, who speaks little English, who likely will be grieving, whose paperwork cannot be lost, in India of all places!
Preparations still include, but are not limited to, finishing her room (wall paper is down, have yet to sand and paint), gathering together all the needed paperwork (still waiting for some), reading over the highlighted parts of "The Connected Child", getting shots, doing two rummage sales to help on the financial end and general packing. Which brings us to an exciting milestone. I officially began packing tonight! So, since I've seen blue for the past 7, almost 8, years, do I pack all pink just to get it out of my system???
I'm thankful for my God who has continually given us peace over every step of this process and even though at times I am overwhelmed with all of it, I know He will continue to wrap up the loose ends before we travel and won't let me forget a single document. He's just good like that!
We are truly praying we can travel in mid-July. It simply works really good with our schedule here. Please believe with us that we can go then. We do know God's timing is perfect and He will send us when He's ready.
Pray as well that I can be focused and organized as we make travel plans and for favor in getting great deals at hotels and on our airline tickets. We are using a travel agent Holt recommends.
As much as we love to travel and are looking forward to the trip itself, we can't wait to simply get Victoria home and begin our lives together. Those cheeks need some kisses from her mama, those toes some tickles from her dada and that head rubbed by her big brothers. We were all standing in the kitchen one evening and we showed the boys how tall Victoria was and where the top of her head would be. So they pretended to rub and pat the top of her head. They do it when they watch her video, too. What a gift she will be to them and they to her!
Preparations still include, but are not limited to, finishing her room (wall paper is down, have yet to sand and paint), gathering together all the needed paperwork (still waiting for some), reading over the highlighted parts of "The Connected Child", getting shots, doing two rummage sales to help on the financial end and general packing. Which brings us to an exciting milestone. I officially began packing tonight! So, since I've seen blue for the past 7, almost 8, years, do I pack all pink just to get it out of my system???
I'm thankful for my God who has continually given us peace over every step of this process and even though at times I am overwhelmed with all of it, I know He will continue to wrap up the loose ends before we travel and won't let me forget a single document. He's just good like that!
We are truly praying we can travel in mid-July. It simply works really good with our schedule here. Please believe with us that we can go then. We do know God's timing is perfect and He will send us when He's ready.
Pray as well that I can be focused and organized as we make travel plans and for favor in getting great deals at hotels and on our airline tickets. We are using a travel agent Holt recommends.
As much as we love to travel and are looking forward to the trip itself, we can't wait to simply get Victoria home and begin our lives together. Those cheeks need some kisses from her mama, those toes some tickles from her dada and that head rubbed by her big brothers. We were all standing in the kitchen one evening and we showed the boys how tall Victoria was and where the top of her head would be. So they pretended to rub and pat the top of her head. They do it when they watch her video, too. What a gift she will be to them and they to her!
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Victoria's Update
We got Victoria's update, but I had to wait until after school on Friday to get it. Oh, the wait! She continues to be healthy. She is 24# and 32" - about a size 2T. Her growth seems to have plateaued. She gained only 1 1/2 pounds between Jan. 19 and March 25. I wish I had more information to pass along. There's just no additional news. No news is good news with her progress reports. We are now applying for her immigrant visa. We received our I-800 provisional approval - simply another paperwork hurdle crossed. God gave us favor once again.
Today in Sunday School Will and Logan each made Victoria a necklace. They are so excited for their little sister to come home. Logan also had kindergarten round-up this week and his first T-ball game. He played 1st base and was very determined to catch any ball coming his way. Unfortunately, the throws weren't so good, and well, he's still learning to catch. Very fun to watch.
Today in Sunday School Will and Logan each made Victoria a necklace. They are so excited for their little sister to come home. Logan also had kindergarten round-up this week and his first T-ball game. He played 1st base and was very determined to catch any ball coming his way. Unfortunately, the throws weren't so good, and well, he's still learning to catch. Very fun to watch.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
VERBALS HAVE BEEN GRANTED!!!
We got a call from Mary at Holt today and she told us the judge in Bangalore gave us verbal guardianship of Victoria - on the last day before the courts closed for the month of May!!! Is God at work or what?! Now we complete more paperwork on our end. Our timeline looks like:
Beginning of June - Courts in Bangalore open
1-2 weeks for written guardianship to be issued
2-4 weeks to obtain Victoria's passport
mid - July - TRAVEL!!!!! (give or take a few weeks as always)
I can't believe how fast this is all happening. Mary said, "Your case has been processed quick for Bangalore courts." I know people are praying and God has His hand upon our family and the process.
Please pray for perfect travel timing, care for Will and Logan back at home, and continued financial provision.
I'd say this is all to good to be true, but our God is THAT GOOD!
We will be posting an update on Victoria very soon as well. It just hasn't come through the e-mail yet.
Beginning of June - Courts in Bangalore open
1-2 weeks for written guardianship to be issued
2-4 weeks to obtain Victoria's passport
mid - July - TRAVEL!!!!! (give or take a few weeks as always)
I can't believe how fast this is all happening. Mary said, "Your case has been processed quick for Bangalore courts." I know people are praying and God has His hand upon our family and the process.
Please pray for perfect travel timing, care for Will and Logan back at home, and continued financial provision.
I'd say this is all to good to be true, but our God is THAT GOOD!
We will be posting an update on Victoria very soon as well. It just hasn't come through the e-mail yet.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Court update
We received our first update on the court processing in Bangalore. The quoted part below is from the orphanage with explanation to follow.
"...and Victoria Rani- The dates for the 1st hearing has not been given but they have been seen by the scrutiny officer for her report. Since court closes on the 24th of April it does look like it may not pass before that. However I am trying to think positive:-))"--end of VCT email.
The Bangalore court closes for Summer Recess from 24 April-25 May. While the courts don't always close completely, we are hearing from VCT not to expect any movement during summer recess this year. We are hearing the same thing from BSSK regarding the Summer Recess in Pune which is from 5 May-7 June.
The scrutiny officer has to review each case prior to the 1st hearing. Often times, this does not happen before the first hearing and the hearing gets postponed. It is good news that at least the scrutiny officer has reviewed our case, but it does take a while for the order to be given so that may not happen before the court closure.
Continue to pray for speedy processing!
Continue to pray for speedy processing!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
NOC Received!!!!!!
We received CARA's NOC (India's central government's No-Objection Certificate)!!!!! That means that the central government has approved us to adopt. Now VCT (Victoria's orphanage that oversees her foster care) will file with the local attorney/courts. We will know when the first hearing will be in a couple weeks. Our case has to go through 3-5 hearings each scheduled about 4 weeks apart. Unfortunately, the courts are closed in June for holiday. :(
Now we complete yet more paperwork, the I-800 to be specific, and some attachments with it.
This is such good news and our NOC came sooner than we expected!!!
We were pretending to pat Victoria's head in the kitchen the other day - at the height she is..... and Will and Logan keep saying, "I can't wait to rub her head!"
Now we complete yet more paperwork, the I-800 to be specific, and some attachments with it.
This is such good news and our NOC came sooner than we expected!!!
We were pretending to pat Victoria's head in the kitchen the other day - at the height she is..... and Will and Logan keep saying, "I can't wait to rub her head!"
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Victoria's Video of Her Forever Family
We have enjoyed putting together a video for Victoria this weekend. The boys did most of the narrating. They gave her a tour of our home and showed her where her shoes and toothbrush are. It was fun putting the little pink Dora toothbrush in with the two Spongebob ones. We showed her around the yard, the boys riding bikes and jumping on the trampoline and took her down to the swings on the lake. We couldn't yet film her room because it's far from being finished. It still has a double bed in it and we haven't painted it yet, so even if we did film it, she wouldn't recognize it when she comes home. We'll send her snapshots of it soon. We have a friend who will edit the video for us next week and add some music to some snapshots we plan to add at the end. What a blessing that will be! I am praying that God will guard her heart and give her understanding beyond her years - that when she sees pictures of us and watches the video, she will begin to understand we are her forever family.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
The Papers Made It!
Our papers made it to India. Mary from Holt e-mailed me and said VCT is filing at CARA for NOC. Sounds like the military or something. They sent our paperwork to the Indian government and we will receive a Non-Objection Certificate in 4-6 weeks. Then our paperwork will go through the local Bangalore courts.
Also, Mary confirmed that they do inform the children of their new families when they receive the acceptance papers and that they have most likely shared our pictures with Victoria. :) :) :)
Pray for speedy NOC for us!
Also, Mary confirmed that they do inform the children of their new families when they receive the acceptance papers and that they have most likely shared our pictures with Victoria. :) :) :)
Pray for speedy NOC for us!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Our Papers are Going to India!
Our papers were sent to India on Friday, Feb. 20th (which was Melissa's Grandma's birthday)!!! The papers are sent to VCT (the orphanage that manages Victoria's foster care) and they will forward a copy to CARA (the Indian government) for their review and approval. CARA's approval is in the form of a Non Objection Certificate. This typically takes 1-4 months. Then we do yet more paperwork and then will wait for court processing.
Having our papers finally sent off is a huge relief! Holt carefully reviews them for accuracy and congruency, so knowing that they sent simply means "All's good to go!"
We also sent a small photo album - laminated pages with pictures on them - of our immediate family and our home for Victoria to see. I think she will get to see it shortly after VCT receives our papers. We wish we could be there to see her "see" us!!! Will and Logan drew her pictures as well. We will also be working on a video to send to her. She will finally see her goofy big brothers in action!
We can send Victoria anything that resembles a document - stickers, cards, coloring pages and anything else creative we can think of. Maybe I can find a "paper thin" blankie. :)
On a financial note, God provided all we needed before our papers were mailed in! We serve a wonderful loving God and have wonderful loving friends and family, too! You know who you are and we thank you! We are now saving for our travel expenses which will be upwards of $7,000.00. However, that is pocket change to God and we know He has brought us this far and he won't leave us hanging! We continue to save Melissa's teaching money, are planning for more rummage sales and praying for a grant. We refinanced our home which lowered our monthly payment. God is good. "Whatever we ask in His name ~ He will do it!"
Having our papers finally sent off is a huge relief! Holt carefully reviews them for accuracy and congruency, so knowing that they sent simply means "All's good to go!"
We also sent a small photo album - laminated pages with pictures on them - of our immediate family and our home for Victoria to see. I think she will get to see it shortly after VCT receives our papers. We wish we could be there to see her "see" us!!! Will and Logan drew her pictures as well. We will also be working on a video to send to her. She will finally see her goofy big brothers in action!
We can send Victoria anything that resembles a document - stickers, cards, coloring pages and anything else creative we can think of. Maybe I can find a "paper thin" blankie. :)
On a financial note, God provided all we needed before our papers were mailed in! We serve a wonderful loving God and have wonderful loving friends and family, too! You know who you are and we thank you! We are now saving for our travel expenses which will be upwards of $7,000.00. However, that is pocket change to God and we know He has brought us this far and he won't leave us hanging! We continue to save Melissa's teaching money, are planning for more rummage sales and praying for a grant. We refinanced our home which lowered our monthly payment. God is good. "Whatever we ask in His name ~ He will do it!"
Friday, February 6, 2009
Our I-800a has been approved!!!!!!!!
We got our I-800a approval notice in the mail today!!! This means that the US has approved us to adopt. This is an incredible mountain conquered in our adoption process and I feel like a burden has been lifted. All of our paperwork will be sent from Holt to India early next week and then we, yep, you may have guessed it, wait some more. It will take 6-9 months (give or take a month or so - this process is quite unpredictable) for our case to go through the courts in Bangalore.
We have also had truly amazing financial provision and are able to pay Holt's India Program Fee. This had to be paid before Holt could send our documents to India. God is always on time! We continue to raise funds, save and pray hard for the next steps of the process.
I, Melissa, dropped my brother Kevin, his wife Julie, and another couple, Steve and JoAnn Ulery, off at the airport today as they embark on a missions trip to Tanzania, Africa. I am so excited for what God is doing in each of their lives. Pray for them the next two weeks.
We have also had truly amazing financial provision and are able to pay Holt's India Program Fee. This had to be paid before Holt could send our documents to India. God is always on time! We continue to raise funds, save and pray hard for the next steps of the process.
I, Melissa, dropped my brother Kevin, his wife Julie, and another couple, Steve and JoAnn Ulery, off at the airport today as they embark on a missions trip to Tanzania, Africa. I am so excited for what God is doing in each of their lives. Pray for them the next two weeks.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
Our girl is growing!
We received our quarterly update on Victoria with a new picture which I will post on here at some point. She was 12# in August when she arrived at VCT and now she's 22#. Growing - just wish we could watch her grow! We are thankful she is thriving in her environment. There wasn't any other big news in the update. Just that she's healthy and attending speech therapy twice a week. Her motor skills are listed as "good" too. She must be gaining some muscles on those little bones. All the better to run from her big brothers.
We are expecting our paperwork to be processed here in the US in the next week or two. We received correspondence from USCIS and they want an addendum to our home study from our social worker. Mary from Holt said we should receive approval within two weeks after the addendum is received. Then our dossier will be couriered to India and we'll wait 6-9 months for the courts to process it.....
Life has been a bit hectic here. We are in the process of refinancing our house which will lower our payment. As soon as we began the refinancing, we had a pipe break in our basement and flood part of it, so we had to quickly get some remodeling completed down there. In the midst of that, Billy fell 9' off a ladder and broke his ankle and has to be off it for 6 weeks. We are learning much through all of it and can see God at work as well. What the enemy means for destruction, we will turn around for God's glory!
Tomorrow is Logan's 5th birthday. It's bitter sweet as we believe 4 is the perfect age. Logan had a blast at his birthday party at the fire station yesterday and is looking forward to more presents tomorrow. Both boys have literally been bouncing off the walls this weekend!
We are expecting our paperwork to be processed here in the US in the next week or two. We received correspondence from USCIS and they want an addendum to our home study from our social worker. Mary from Holt said we should receive approval within two weeks after the addendum is received. Then our dossier will be couriered to India and we'll wait 6-9 months for the courts to process it.....
Life has been a bit hectic here. We are in the process of refinancing our house which will lower our payment. As soon as we began the refinancing, we had a pipe break in our basement and flood part of it, so we had to quickly get some remodeling completed down there. In the midst of that, Billy fell 9' off a ladder and broke his ankle and has to be off it for 6 weeks. We are learning much through all of it and can see God at work as well. What the enemy means for destruction, we will turn around for God's glory!
Tomorrow is Logan's 5th birthday. It's bitter sweet as we believe 4 is the perfect age. Logan had a blast at his birthday party at the fire station yesterday and is looking forward to more presents tomorrow. Both boys have literally been bouncing off the walls this weekend!
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