We finally had our homestudy visit about a week ago. It was scheduled for a Sunday, but then our SW got sick, so she rescheduled for Monday evening at 6:00. Well, that afternoon, Bill was scheduled to do a visitation with a local hog farmer. He spent the afternoon assisting this gentleman with his pigs, dead and alive. He called me about 5:35 saying he would be home in a few minutes and would take a quick shower because "he really stunk." Having not spent time in "hog country" I had no idea just how bad until he entered the house. Even the boys were overwhelmed with the horrid stench and hollered, "Dad, what'd you do?!" So we proceeded to open the doors, spray air freshner, set Bill's shoes outside and throw his clothes in the washer.
Thankfully, our SW got caught up in traffic up in South Bend and arrived about 30 minutes late. So we were in the clear - you know, clear air!! We enjoyed our visit with her and as I took her around the home I simply showed her the door to the laundry room and proceeded on up the stairs for fear of what might be behind that door!
4-5 washes later (I lost track), and a day on the clothesline, Bill's clothes are back to normal and we are grateful to all the families who help provide our ham and bacon that's oh, so good!
However, Mary from Holt called us on Friday, March 21 and said we are officially on the waiting list! Yeah!
We are awaiting some official documents from our SW and our dossier will be on its way to Holt!
We now begin the paperwork for USCIS - United States Citizen and Immigration Services. What all that entails, I'm not so sure. I haven't read the 11 or so pages of instructions and now's not the time because Logan has been on the X-Box long enough for today!
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Did you hide the eggs?
We had a comical thing happen after church on Easter Sunday. Let me begin by telling you how tired Billy and I both were. We have a sunrise service at our church at 7:00am, so it's an earlier morning than usual for all of us.
After lunch Billy told the boys they could search for their Easter eggs. They began to search all over the house. After quite some time, we both wondered why they had not discovered any yet and the boys began commenting on how well the bunny had hidden their eggs. I finally asked Billy, "Did you hide the eggs?" thinking he had hid them while the boys had been up in their room earlier. He replied with a "No, didn't you hide them last night?" No eggs had even been hidden yet! We discretely and casually hid some around the house as the boys continued to look and suddenly they began to find them, much to their relief.
As parents, we love our children and want them to be able to find their treasures. It was our responsibility to make sure the treasure was there to find and it was their job to keep on searching until they found it, not losing heart or giving up. They trust that the treasure is truly there for them to find. How much God is the same way with His children. "If you seek Him, He will be found." "Seek first His kingdom..."
We need to be seeking Him and all He has for us and be confident that we'll find Him and all the great treasure of His kingdom He has for us. I can just see God up there cheering us on to keep looking. He's hidden all the eggs and the next one could be right where we're about to look! He's excited for what we're about to discover and experience! I pray you find an egg today!
After lunch Billy told the boys they could search for their Easter eggs. They began to search all over the house. After quite some time, we both wondered why they had not discovered any yet and the boys began commenting on how well the bunny had hidden their eggs. I finally asked Billy, "Did you hide the eggs?" thinking he had hid them while the boys had been up in their room earlier. He replied with a "No, didn't you hide them last night?" No eggs had even been hidden yet! We discretely and casually hid some around the house as the boys continued to look and suddenly they began to find them, much to their relief.
As parents, we love our children and want them to be able to find their treasures. It was our responsibility to make sure the treasure was there to find and it was their job to keep on searching until they found it, not losing heart or giving up. They trust that the treasure is truly there for them to find. How much God is the same way with His children. "If you seek Him, He will be found." "Seek first His kingdom..."
We need to be seeking Him and all He has for us and be confident that we'll find Him and all the great treasure of His kingdom He has for us. I can just see God up there cheering us on to keep looking. He's hidden all the eggs and the next one could be right where we're about to look! He's excited for what we're about to discover and experience! I pray you find an egg today!
Monday, March 17, 2008
Happy St. Patrick's Day!
Happy St. Patrick's Day from the Irish in our home! Will has a dark green sweatshirt that he got from his Aunt Cathy when he was a baby that says "I'm so cute, I must be Irish". It fits him now and he's wearing it today, of course. I looked at it and thought, "Oh, with the little clover and calligraphy writing it almost looks girlish", but he wanted to wear it anyway. Maybe someday our little Indian daughter can wear it and won't that be funny! How Irish, she won't look!
And our Will is growing up. He went to a waterpark hotel in Indy with a friend from school for the night. I'm confident he'll do great, have fun and will behave himself, but a mom can't help getting butterflies over it. I kept thinking of more things to tell him or remind him to do or not to do, but didn't tell him most of them or I would simply overwhelm him. He knows all that stuff anyway - that's what we've taught him the past 6 years. I see now that you just do your best in raising them and they'll be fine and ready for the next step in life. I'm just thankful he is able to go and that he got invited. What fun he will have!
And when I asked Logan what he wanted to do tonight, he picked......drum roll........McDonalds and rent another Star Wars movie. How unoriginal, but hey, it's his pick tonight. :)
And our Will is growing up. He went to a waterpark hotel in Indy with a friend from school for the night. I'm confident he'll do great, have fun and will behave himself, but a mom can't help getting butterflies over it. I kept thinking of more things to tell him or remind him to do or not to do, but didn't tell him most of them or I would simply overwhelm him. He knows all that stuff anyway - that's what we've taught him the past 6 years. I see now that you just do your best in raising them and they'll be fine and ready for the next step in life. I'm just thankful he is able to go and that he got invited. What fun he will have!
And when I asked Logan what he wanted to do tonight, he picked......drum roll........McDonalds and rent another Star Wars movie. How unoriginal, but hey, it's his pick tonight. :)
Thursday, March 6, 2008
The Best Birthday Gift
I had the best birthday ever this year! Why? My sweet little 4 year-old asked Jesus into his heart!!! Logan has been wanting to take Communion at church. I think he truly just wants a snack after all that praise and worship, but why deny the child the opportunity to remember what Christ has done for him? The Gospel is so simple that even a little Logan can understand.
Before bed, we gave him a re-teaching of the death and resurrection of Jesus and talked about going to Heaven when one dies if they have Jesus in their heart. This opened the floodgates of tears and cries of "I don't want to die." After some more chatting about how Logan is not going to die until He is ready to, we all bowed (Will too) and said the "Sinner's Prayer" together. It was so special. There is still so much Logan doesn't understand (like all of us), but He knows that "Jesus is bigger than the whole world" and that "God can do anything" and that "We should love and not hate" and many other great concepts. Logan loves to worship the Lord - not always in church as he is quite shy - but at home He'll grab a guitar and worship God without holding anything back. Sometimes it cracks us up, but we know God is instilling in His little heart a love of worship.
What more could I ask for on my birthday than for my child to profess his love for Jesus! Now Logan can have his "snack" of Communion instead of the stick of gum I always hand him before Will and I go partake. We better have a re-teaching of Communion, too, don't you think?
Before bed, we gave him a re-teaching of the death and resurrection of Jesus and talked about going to Heaven when one dies if they have Jesus in their heart. This opened the floodgates of tears and cries of "I don't want to die." After some more chatting about how Logan is not going to die until He is ready to, we all bowed (Will too) and said the "Sinner's Prayer" together. It was so special. There is still so much Logan doesn't understand (like all of us), but He knows that "Jesus is bigger than the whole world" and that "God can do anything" and that "We should love and not hate" and many other great concepts. Logan loves to worship the Lord - not always in church as he is quite shy - but at home He'll grab a guitar and worship God without holding anything back. Sometimes it cracks us up, but we know God is instilling in His little heart a love of worship.
What more could I ask for on my birthday than for my child to profess his love for Jesus! Now Logan can have his "snack" of Communion instead of the stick of gum I always hand him before Will and I go partake. We better have a re-teaching of Communion, too, don't you think?
Friday, January 25, 2008
Our homestudy paperwork is in! We will now head on to a few interviews with our social worker. We also have about 50% of our dossier paperwork completed.
I vowed not to buy anything for our little girl until we have a referral, but the little black .89 dress shoes at Dollar General were calling my name! Despite Billy's great sermon last Sunday, I just couldn't flee the temptation. And Logan said it was OK to buy them for his little sister, so I guess it's alright now. Will made a snowman at school and had to put one button on it for each member of his family. As cold as it is outside, I got all warm inside when I saw there were 5 little buttons on his snowman. I think I shall date his masterpiece and put it in our daughter's things for safekeeping. She'll know someday she was part of our family even before we knew her.
We're headed to the monster truck show in Indianapolis tomorrow. Our church got us tickets for Pastor Appreciation this year. The boys simply can't contain their excitement - not that they're trying in any way.
I vowed not to buy anything for our little girl until we have a referral, but the little black .89 dress shoes at Dollar General were calling my name! Despite Billy's great sermon last Sunday, I just couldn't flee the temptation. And Logan said it was OK to buy them for his little sister, so I guess it's alright now. Will made a snowman at school and had to put one button on it for each member of his family. As cold as it is outside, I got all warm inside when I saw there were 5 little buttons on his snowman. I think I shall date his masterpiece and put it in our daughter's things for safekeeping. She'll know someday she was part of our family even before we knew her.
We're headed to the monster truck show in Indianapolis tomorrow. Our church got us tickets for Pastor Appreciation this year. The boys simply can't contain their excitement - not that they're trying in any way.
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas! We are plowing through the paperwork for homestudy and collecting every penny possible to pay for it as well. Our social worker matched another social worker's price and so that has helped immensely. We have been blessed this Christmas by so many people, but something is still missing - our little girl. We pray she had a wonderful Christmas toddling around on the other side of the world.
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
We received our India Adoption Process Guidebook from Holt a few days ago. It's a whopping 2" thick, but has been a fascinating read for me. I'm a bit overwhelemed with the paperchase I'm beginning, but I look at it like receiving 6 college syllabi in one week: It doesn't all have to be done right now. However, it helps in the planning and organizing to see the big picture.
It's gotten cold out now and today a librarian told Logan it's a good day to make cookies. So tonight I was tickling Logan's belly and he said, "Hey, belly, you want some cookies? Yes." That was enough for me to get the bowl out. Will's at wrestling and will enjoy a sweet snack upon his return - as will Billy.
It's gotten cold out now and today a librarian told Logan it's a good day to make cookies. So tonight I was tickling Logan's belly and he said, "Hey, belly, you want some cookies? Yes." That was enough for me to get the bowl out. Will's at wrestling and will enjoy a sweet snack upon his return - as will Billy.
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