Monday, October 15, 2007

We're adding to our family!

We have exciting news to share with you! I (Melissa) have had a dream since I was a child of adopting internationally. Billy and I have had this idea in the back of our minds since we were married and always thought it would be "way down the road sometime". However, last spring Tim and Karla Shamala and their 4 precious children came to visit us. They are good friends of ours from college and are missionaries to India. As we talked with them about India and it's people, God began working on our hearts to adopt a girl from there.

After much prayer and research as well as many confirmations, we have begun the process of bringing our daughter home. I have been continually amazed at how God is directing our lives in this way - that He would give us another precious gift - one of His children. I am truly in awe of His love for us.

Adopting from India usually takes 18 months to 2 years - much longer than many other countries. A couple social workers have tried to talk us out of adopting from India because of the wait time and the additional paper work, too, but we know our little one will be worth the wait. Holt International, the angency we are using, helps to operate 3 orphanges in India. We will be receiving a preschool aged girl, likely from one of those orphanges. You can do a search of "BSSK" online and see pictures and a video of one of them. Had Billy and I sat down one day and said, "Hey, let's go ahead and adopt", we would have never been able to decide which country to adopt from. God is continuing to plant in us a love and burden for the people in India. We feel as though we will be bringing a piece of India's "mission field" into our very own home!

We have recently submitted our application to Holt, are awaiting acceptance into the India program and will begin our homestudy in December or January.

Will and Logan are excited about their little sister as well. After Tim & Karla left our home, we began to pray nightly for the "little kids in India that God would provide them all families and mommies and daddies and brothers and sisters." Well, one little girl may not get sisters, but instead two big brothers to protect her - and maybe tease just a bit. They may not completely understand just how long it will take to get her, but Will knows he will be about 8 years old and Logan, 6 . This gives them some perspective.

I will continue to update this blog as we proceed through the process. Please pray with us that the process will go smoothly (it appears to be quite complicated with mass amounts of paperwork), that the finances will be there (God already provided half of our application fee!)and that our daughter remains healthy and protected.

"Children are a heritage of the Lord, they are His reward!" Psalms 127:3

No comments: